As an engaged man living in the suburbs, the idea of a “sugar daddy” resonates as way more fantastical than practical.
I mean, where I live, if you see an older man with a younger woman, there's a good chance he's her father. Seeking Arrangement has over 3 million members in the US alone — 484,695 of which are sugar daddies (who, on average, are white 40-year-olds with a 5,000 income) and 2,250,868 are sugar babies (who, on average, are 25 years old).
No more jealousy or having to check in if you plan on having a late night out with the lads.
Married men that seek out the lifestyle are usually missing something in their relationships.
But websites that promise to match older wealthy men with young attractive women have been thriving in America for years; one of the most popular – Seeking Arrangement.com, which bills itself as a place “where the attractive meet the affluent” – claims to have a million subscribers, with 10 women for every man.
It has just launched in the UK, where it is already boasting 80,000 members.
But after getting familiar with Seeking Arrangement, a popular dating site for sugar daddy/baby relationships, I soon discovered that maybe the twosomes I had assumed were father/daughter might not be that at all. To get a more personal account of what these types of relationships entail, I spoke to Cameron*, a 48-year-old healthcare consultant (earning upwards of 5,000 a year) who's been a sugar daddy for three and a half years (he got divorced almost a decade ago).
However, they were aware of my previous sugar baby as “a friend who was much younger.” My family assumed that she was my girlfriend.Find your perfect mutually beneficial arrangement today. When I joined my first sugar daddy dating website five years ago, it wasn’t to find someone to help pay the bills or provide me with a shopping allowance.Sugar daddies must be generous, so some disposable income.You also need to understand that these aren't regular relationships, which is great for many men.It's the spark, that spontaneity before they settled down.